by Karen Imperial
I remember about a year or so ago I decided to reread Norman Vincent Peale's The Power of Positive Thinking. I was going through a hard time. I had just been diagnosed with Breast Cancer and I was very scared!
I didn't really know what stage the cancer was. I was in the middle of having surgery to have the tumor removed and had not yet found out how far the cancer had progressed and if it was in an early "curable stage". The good news is it was, and my treatment was nothing compared with what some woman go through. I was still so scared and the emotional toll it placed on my mind and feelings was probably the hardest thing for me to deal within my life.
Anyway, just before I was diagnosed with cancer, I had decided to expand my business. I own an art gallery in a very wealthy area of California, but found that the downtown area had become less busy in the last few years. I wanted to have a "satellite" store" in another part of town that was heavily populated with shoppers.
I had found the "perfect" spot. It was positioned between two "perfect" stores and was in a small shopping center in town that had just been renovated and was bustling with shoppers! The space had been rented and remodeled, but then the tenants backed out of the lease and it was ready for me to rent it! The rent was inexpensive and it was "MY" spot!
I had made an appointment to meet the landlord and sign the contract the next day....then I received a call from my Doctor saying that I had in fact, had Breast Cancer and we needed to operate as soon as possible. I was not able at that point to sign the contract and had to let my "perfect spot" go. It was rented shortly after that.
Within the last two years every time I had gone by that shopping center I would grunt to myself, "that space should have been mine". "If I hadn't gotten cancer, I would be in that space and all would be well." I started feeling sorry for myself.
That's when I decided to reread The Power of Positive Thinking. I remember reading in the book about a man who had lost his promotion to another man that the company had brought to fill the position. He was so angry and felt that it was so unjust for the company and God to not let him have this promotion. He had worked harder and longer than the other man in the company and felt he was the "perfect" man for the job. He was devastated.
He and his wife struggled to let go of that promotion and focus on moving forward and accept that this was not the time or the job for him at this point in his career. Two years later the President of this company stepped down from his position and this man became the President of that company! 'What an inspirational story,' I thought to myself. Yes, they tell me all the time "sometimes when things pass you by, it's because there is something better waiting for you in the wings", " You need to have faith and move forward", so that's what I did. I had faith and I moved forward.
It's been a little over two years since my cancer diagnosis and I feel like I'm back to normal again. I have moved forward and a couple of weeks ago, out of the blue, a friend of mine called me to tell me that there was a space opening up beside him in a very good building that has only art galleries in it. It is a building known for having very good high end galleries and collectors from all over the country and the world come to visit this building and the galleries that are in it. Well, I'm sure you know that this was my "Perfect" spot! Yes in deed....I got a bigger space, in a better location, for less money!!!! I can't tell you how the story of the man in the Norman Vincent Peale Book came rushing back to my mind. Yes, it is true! It is! Faith and the ability to let go and move on is what was needed. I did that, I trusted and I gave myself and God time to work things out.
Next month the gallery opens. Though it is a small gallery space, it is a "perfect" space, it is the space that was given to me by God.
See Also:
Our God Is Awesome
Amazing Story that
illustrates that with God everything
is possible.
Mrs. Thompson and Teddy
An inspirational story of how a
teacher learned that she could make
a difference in her students.
Teaching involves more than just
teaching reading, writing and
arithmetic.
Parable Of The Pencil
There are 5 things you need to know,
he told the pencil, before I send
you out into the world. Always
remember them and never forget, and
you will become the best pencil you
can be. And the principles apply to
our lives too.
Take Hold Of Every Moment
"Never save something for a special
occasion. Every day in your life is
a special occasion". Those words
changed my life.
About the Author:
Feel free to email your thoughts to Karen Imperial on her story to: ktheimp@gmail.com and take the time to view her gallery website at: www.bryantstreet.com
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